‘They get what they pay for’: 16-year-old refuses to babysit his three younger siblings because parents won't pay him, leading to a discussion on favoritism

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    AITA for refusing to babysit when my parents asked because they wouldn't pay me?
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    My parents have me (16M) and my younger siblings (12F, 10M and 7F). My younger siblings get an allowance for the chores they do which is one chore each and for that they get $20 a week.
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    While I never got an allowance for doing my chores and I have five chores; making four beds every morning, keeping the kid living room tidy, doing laundry twice a
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    week, cooking for the family once a week and cleaning my siblings lunch boxes after school. I always had multiple chores. This list has been the same for five years.
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    Before that the only difference was cooking since I didn't cook one night a week. But laundry was added when I was like 7 or 8. My siblings. chores are; carry dishes
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    to whoever washes up (7F), start the robo vacuum (10M) and make sure the fridge always has bottled water (12F). I asked my parents why my siblings get paid but I
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    don't even though I do more. They told me it was the responsibility of being the oldest and they shouldn't need to pay me to be a good brother and son. Then they hated
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    when I got a job because some of my chores were done at different times than they used to be. I told them I wanted money and since they decided I wasn't worth paying like
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    my siblings were I got a real job instead. To be clear I still do my chores. But instead of the lunch boxes being done right after school on Friday it happens after work. The
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    kid living room is messier longer because I'll be at work while my siblings are making a mess. My parents want to go on an overnight date night
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    and they asked me to babysit. I asked them what they were paying and they said nothing, it would be another chore. I told them I won't babysit then and I'll only babysit
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    if I get paid. They told me they can't afford to pay me and I replied that I was tired of being screwed over by them while they pay my younger siblings. They
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    told me I was being a brat and they can make me babysit. I reminded them that they get what they pay for. AITA?
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    maleficentwasri... • 1d ago NTA Tell them you didn't ask to be or want the responsibility of being the oldest sibling. You had NO say in their family planning.
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    If they can't afford a sitter, they can't afford a date night. Older siblings aren't ready-made free ones. You were absolutely 100% correct in your response.
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    Also, why is 10ms job just starting the roomba when 7f is carrying plates and 12f is restocking the fridge? That seems unequal too, he literally just pushes a button.
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    Your siblings are going to revolt when you leave for uni or just move out and all the extra chores will need to be split between them.
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    Any_Dragonfrui... • 1d ago NTA. Your parents are ridiculous. Did they have you so you could parent the other children. They are not your responsibility and it's crappy parenting giving them an allowance and not you. How about no allowances then they can pay for a REAL babysitter
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    Only-Ingenuity7... . 1d ago Sounds like that evening is a good night to sleep over at a friend's house, just in case. NTA. This is bulls
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    LotsofCatsFI • 1d ago NTA being the oldest does not make you responsible for taking care of the younger ones. That's always your parents responsibility

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